26 August 20262 min read

“A day without laughter is a day wasted.” — Charlie Chaplin

“A smile is the universal welcome.” — Max Eastman

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.” — Phyllis Diller

“A hut full of laughter is richer than a palace full of sadness.” — Zen Proverb

“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” — Victor Borge


有一種東西,比我們的面貌更像我們,那便是我們的表情。還有另外一種東西,比表情更像我們,那便是我們的微笑:)


Always laugh out loud when you can. Laughter is cheap medicine.


“The less you talk about your shame, the more of it you have.” — Mark Manson

“The more you can laugh at yourself, the happier you’ll be. When you screw something up, practice laughing at yourself instead of beating yourself up.” — Arnold Schwarzenegger 1

(小野著. and 小野, 1951- author 2012)

人生歷經不同的痛苦煎熬後,我終於了解,學習如何化解痛苦,還不如練習用一種自我解嘲的幽默方式,慢慢將痛苦吞食,或許在某一瞬間,還會有甘甜的滋味在喉間。

Vulnerability


Optimism


  • Set the face for the day — smile at yourself in the mirror first thing in the morning.
  • Laugh out loud, not just inwardly — pretend-laughing for ten seconds usually becomes real laughing. The body doesn’t fully know the difference.
  • Ask “what’s the joke here?” — when something goes wrong, hunt for the absurd angle. There is almost always one.
  • Keep levity in your media diet — consume genuinely funny things (e.g. memes) on purpose, like a nutrient. 2
  • Laugh with people, not at them — shared laughter builds bonds; laughter at someone’s expense breaks them.

  1. 自貶、自嘲、自我揭短 ⌃

  2. Don’t underestimate the power of memes (aka Pebbling). It signals that you’re thinking of them and want them to share your joy. It’s an act of care. Every pebble is a bid for (social) connection. ⌃

❝ CITATIONS

小野著., and 小野, 1951- author. 2012. 有些事, 這些年我才懂: 小野的人生思考. Chu ban. 臺北市: 究竟出版社. ↩
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