2025 年 7 月 15 日,世界排名第一的高爾夫球好手 Scottie Scheffler,在 記者會 上被問到:「你怎麼定義成功的一年?會在年初就寫下目標嗎?」
其實每年都差不多,我不太去看輸贏。我不會在年初坐下來說:今年要拿幾個大滿貫、贏幾個巡迴賽冠軍。那不是我會做的事,對我來說也不管用。我有一些不斷努力追求的夢想和渴望。但到頭來,我只想活在當下,我只想每天都認真練習。
It doesn’t really change year by year. I don’t look at wins and losses or stuff like that. I don’t sit down at the beginning of the year and say I want to win X number of times; I want to win this many majors; I want to win this many tournament events. That’s not something I do. That’s not something that works for me. I have some dreams and aspirations that I’m always striving towards, but at the end of the day, I try to stay present. I try to practice hard each and every day.
記者 繼續問:「你這輩子慶祝最久的比賽勝利是哪一次?」
你努力了一輩子,就是為了贏得比賽後那短短幾分鐘的慶祝。那種興奮的感覺只會持續幾分鐘……然後你會想:晚餐要吃什麼?(🤣
It feels like you work your whole life to celebrate winning a tournament for like a few minutes. It only lasts a few minutes, that kind of euphoric feeling…And then it’s like, what are we going to eat for dinner?
這不是一個充實的人生。以成就感來說它是充實的,但以內心最深處來說,它並不充實。很多人以爲抵達目標後會讓自己滿足,然後你終於到了、成了世界第一,你開始想:這到底有什麼意義?
This is not a fulfilling life. It’s fulfilling from the sense of accomplishment, but it’s not fulfilling from the sense of the deepest places of your heart. There’s a lot of people that make it to what they thought was going to fulfill them in life and then you get there and all of a sudden you get to No. 1 in the world, and you’re like, what’s the point?
他接著說:
我像個怪咖,喜歡付出努力、喜歡練習、喜歡實現夢想……我喜歡當爸爸、照顧我兒子……比起偉大的高爾夫球選手,我更想當一名偉大的父親。
I’m kind of a sicko. I love putting in the work. I love being able to practice. I love getting to live out my dreams…I love being a father. I love being able to take care of my son…I would much rather be a great father than I would be a great golfer.
訪談結束後幾天,Scottie 以 4 桿優勢稱霸英國公開賽。
我相信,這場勝利不會讓他有多餘的情緒波動。因為在他心中,有很清楚的 人生優先順序。
